You see it on TV and in the movies, girl love boy or boy loves girl but they love someone else. Magically though, by the end show they get together and live happily ever after. Can this fairy tale happen in real life? Is it possible to make someone fall in love with you and heal your broken heart?
Here are 3 tips to help that special someone fall in love with you:
- Common Interests – People are often attracted to one another when they share a common interest. Try to get to know them and find out their interests; are any of them yours too? Maybe you share the love of hiking or reading the same type of books, whatever it is you can build on that interest. Don’t ever lie about an interest, if the person ever found out you would be breaking their trust and could jeopardize any further relationship. Also you never want to be someone you aren’t; you shouldn’t have change who you are for someone you love.
- Qualities - When people are looking for a partner they look for someone who has qualities they like or admire. For example, one of my friends will only go out with men who are over 35, are non-smokers and have a sense of humor. Do you have qualities that the person you love is attracted to? Look at their past relationships, are their ex partners similar? Do you have any of the qualities that they had? You have to be careful here and don’t try to be just like their past partners, after all there is a reason they broke up. That little something they were attracted to could be as simple as allowing him to hold the door being open for you, holding their hand or made them feel special in some way.
- Be a good friend - I believe a good relationship starts with friendship. It may take a long time to get the person you love but as your friendship grows, you will become a vital part in their life. If they need you, be there for them, be a good listener, but do not stop and just sit there and wait for them! You have to continue living and try dating other people. If you look like you are just there for them at every whim you will only look pathetic. It may sound weird to date other people while you wait for them but you have to show them that you have a life and other people are attracted to you, it may make them look differently at you, they may even find you more attractive.
It’s difficult and heartbreaking when the person you love doesn’t love you back. But it doesn’t have to be that way. You could have a fairy tale ending just like on TV or in the movies, but if these 3 tips don’t work, that person may not be the one for you and you will have to know when to move on and try to heal your broken heart.
