Are you asking yourself after going through a breakup, ‘can I get my ex boyfriend back‘. It can be hard, every breakup is different, and every relationship is different. But there are some things you can do to help get him back.
Be nice. Nagging certainly won’t bring your ex back. You’re just reminding him of all the things he wants to get away from if you nag or act or unpleasant. If you make things uncomfortable every time you see him, he’ll only want to see you less and less.
The last thing you want to do is drive him farther away. Be as pleasant as you can whenever you’re around him, unless the only way to do so is to be absolutely fake. Are you wondering, can I get my ex boyfriend back if I act this way or that way? Then you have to wonder why you want to be back with him anyway. You might be better off finding someone who doesn’t make you need to pretend.
Whatever problems you had before the breakup will seem less important if you act pleasant. Are you wondering why you weren’t more pleasant when you were together. You can’t change the past, but do remember that later when you’re back together. Let him know that you have taken him for granted in the past. He probably took you for granted too, but don’t expect him to admit it now.
Some other things you might be thinking of trying could either be disastrous or they could work in your favor.
Can I get my ex boyfriend back if he has a girlfriend?
This is probably the hardest situation to overcome. Not only is it difficult to be alone with him if he has someone else, he’s focused on the new relationship. You’re part of the past, and not a priority. Being pleasant right now is vital. You have to make him see how wonderful you are and how much he’s missing.
Can I get my ex boyfriend back by trickery?
Revenge is never the answer, it can even be harmful so don’t go there. Even the most innocent-seeming lie or exaggeration could backfire later. What’s the point of figuring out how to get him back only to lose him a little while later because he finds out about your dishonesty? Will making him jealous be easier in getting my ex back? It’s possible, but it could also backfire and make him think you’ve moved on. If you really feel the need to date, then do so if you need that to be happy. But if you’re considering going out with someone just to make your ex jealous, that’s not really fair to your date, or you. Games like this usually don’t work. Be honest with yourself and others, and you stand a better chance of getting back together with your ex.
These are the first steps in winning your ex back. I had to follow steps when I lost the love of my life. And frankly these aren’t my original ideas. When I had no idea how to get my ex back I turned to T. Dub Jackson. T ‘Dub’ authored a simple, down to earth step by step plan called ‘The Magic Of Making Up‘. And you know, it worked like magic for us. Now we are more in love than ever.