If your ex has just broken up with you, you may be in the marketplace for books on relationships? But how do you choose the best books on relationships among the many offerings out there? Learn how to pick the best books on relationships. And the answer will surprise you.
Learn more…don’t be tricked by fancy letters after an author’s name. There are many people who find school to be a convenient escape from real life. They spend their time in the classroom or library when they should be engaging with people. As a result, they end up with a lot of letters after their names when they hit age 35. They use their degrees to indicate that they have “expert knowledge” of a situation. But does their expertise work in the real world?
Make sure you look for books by people who have had some experience in that specific area. They have fixed their own relationship and gotten back together or they have friends do the same. These aren’t therapy patients that come in for the “fifty minute hour” either. These relationships are those of people the author cares deeply about. Next, you want to find books that don’t boil down to “put the relationship aside for 30 days and work on yourself during that period.” This is all most “save your relationship” or “get your ex back” reports say. Many of the ebooks on the market turn that concept into 50 page documents. These don’t deserve your attention or your money. Look for a book that will provide you with information friends can’t seem to give you.
For example, does the book show you what women crave the very most? Will it give you a step by step guide for how to give it to her? Will the book show you how to recover from an affair? Does the book teach you steps on how to not feel so much heartache?
Finally, look at who is recommending the book. Are the examples a little bland? Were they written by the author’s brother and second cousin? You want to find books on relationships that come recommended by a wide variety of people, in various situations, from all walks of life. If it looks like both a guy from England and a newly engaged woman from Kansas have used the book, chances are it will work for you. There are so many relationship books out there. Unfortunately, most of them are drivel because they weren’t written by someone in the trenches. As a result, they have generic advice that could be best summed up in a paragraph or two. If the book reviews are too generic the book may not be the best for you.
Finding the best books on relationships can take a little work. Relationships are work and they do require investing time and a little money, finding the best book is worth it right?